How should i finger a girl

        1. How should i finger a girl

          2. As a rule of thumb, fingers are a great tool for creating the persistent, rhythmic and often nuanced stimulation needed to really pleasure a vulva.

          Don't rub it really fast like you see in porn (unless she's close to orgasm), start off slow in a circular or up and down motion on her clit..

          How To Finger Your Partner

          Fingering is a ubiquitous sex move, but not one that's often discussed.

          At least, that's surely the case in American sex education classes. Some states don't require sex ed to be medically accurate, while others don't require sex ed at all.

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          Given this lack, it's understandable if you have questions about fingering. Here are tips on how to finger your partner, according to two sex experts.

          How to communicate when fingering

          First and foremost: Talk to your partner, said Gigi Engle — ACS, certified sex educator who specializes in gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity — no matter if you're giving or receiving the sexual act.

          Certified sex therapist Casey Tanner suggested the receiver use the "show and tell" method. You can show your partner how you masturbate, so they can visually learn how you like to be touched.

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        3. “Touch your partner's vulva, and lips before you go right for the clit or any sort of penetration,” Carly S. says.
        4. Don't rub it really fast like you see in porn (unless she's close to orgasm), start off slow in a circular or up and down motion on her clit.
        5. As a rule of thumb, fingers are a great tool for creating the persistent, rhythmic and often nuanced stimulation needed to really pleasure a vulva.
        6. Gently stroke your partner's labia, run a finger in circles around their clitoris, or provide direct clitoral stimulation if your partner wants.

          7. Additionally — or alternatively — you can tell your partner.

          "When communicating how you like to be touched, think of using descriptors that specify speed, pressure, and rhythm," Tanner advised. "You might also want to give g